I came to Philadelphia from a small town. And when I say "small town", I mean it: my first high school had a "Drive your tractor to school day". I thought there would be something almost romantic, somewhat spontaneous about moving to the big city on my own. And here I am.
It's ridiculously simple to feel lost in the city. People are everywhere. The city makes me dizzy. Even though I've become literate in subway map-reading, I know a few of the best little boutiques to poke around in, and I have a few nice restaurants I'd love to eat at if I only had the dough, I am, by no means, a "city girl" yet. I still feel lost. There are people absolutely everywhere.
And so here's my little tip of the day - and this doesn't just go for university students in the city; any college campus is large enough to feel a little infinitesimal in. Get involved. Know people.
In high school, I was involved in whatever I could get my hands on: marching band, musical pit, designing costumes for the school plays, the school paper, concert band, Girl Scouts, what have you. College is a bit different. To get involved, you've really got to go for it yourself.
Luckily, I took some initiative before classes even started and got my lonely ass signed up for multiple clubs and organizations, everything from Temple's Socialist club to a Gardening club. Currently, I'm only involved in one of said clubs (Students for Environmental Action represent!), but I make sure to attend as many meetings as possible and volunteer for everything I'm available for.
Similarly (and no, this is not in any way a plug for what I'm involved in), I've very recently become involved with something my Journalism and Society professor has set up: a magazine all about the Philadelphia music scene. It's called Jump. It's a strictly volunteer-based staff of music enthusiasts/students at Temple who want to explore the jungle of the Philadelphia music scene. So far,the ball is still rolling. WWe've got a media package set up, a few hundred Facebook group conversations going, and a group meeting in the works. It's lookin' good, and it feels really good to be involved with something so fresh, so innovative. Look world, I can actually be somebody in a city.
Stay involved. Join something, anything, and most importantly:
Keep calm,
Sarah

I think it is awesome that you are so involved! I meant to do that but kind of lost track of time...I think that is my goal for next semester! You will do awesome discovering yourself in the city :)
ReplyDeleteTo answer your comment to me...Tennessee is a jumble of rural and city areas. My town is kind of like Frederick. Nashville (a big city) is only 30 minutes away, but driving much past that is alllll country areas. Its beautiful!
I made Sam two collages; one of him and friends and one of me and him :) I wrapped them in shopping backs since I'm too poor for wrapping paper!
Mountaindale is a city you would not want to be lost in.
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